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A playful guy seeking a playful woman

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  • Jeg taler Engelsk, Binær
  • Jeg beskriver mig selv som I've received feedback my profile is too long. It might be but if a woman won't invest a few minutes reading it, I doubt she's willing to invest a few decades building, and being rewarded with, a wonderful relationship.



    With that concept as a foundation, here's a quick test to see if you should continue reading. If the following anecdote resonates with you as it did with me, we already share a strong foundation. If not, you can save your time reading the rest.



    My thanks to its author because it exactly portrays the type of relationship I'm seeking.



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    "A while ago I had a job that would take me past an intersection with a WaWa at the corner. After months passing this same intersection you notice things and pick up on routines. At this intersection was a crossing guard with Down's Syndrome who took his job very, very seriously; I've seen him give looks that could melt steel to cars who he deemed didn't stop in a reasonable amount of time. I'll call him "Ted."



    In any case, when Ted wasn't helping the kids across the street he would wave at the cars going by; and I mean *every* car that passed by. If someone waved back or beeped, he would give this really big smile. It really seemed to make his day. Eventually I started waving back and he would give his really enthusiastic wave and smile looking directly at you the entire time.



    I also noticed Ted had a girlfriend who also had Down's Syndrome. I would be passing by the intersection at what I would assume was the end of his shift at times and Ted was out there no matter what. If it was raining cats and dogs he'd be out there with a big day-glo parka. If it was cold, he'd be all bundled-up and she'd be right there with him. Sometimes she would just be standing there talking to him. Other times I'd see them coming out of the WaWa with coffee cups walking across the street holding hands off to the rest of their day. I remember laughing at myself thinking how good Ted had it: a girlfriend and a job he loved!



    Today, years later, Ted popped into my head. I don't watch much television, maybe four hours a week counting sports. However at my gym the machines all face this huge bank of televisions and they're positioned directly in my line of sight so there really is no avoiding them. At the same time I can watch all the channels.



    What I noticed is that they are all trying to sell something: a bigger this, a better that, more convenience and there is the endless parade of celebrities many of whom I have no idea what exactly they are famous for or why they garner so much attention.



    In addition is news that makes the case that if not the entire world, then at least this country in particular has lost its collective mind. I'll give the Dr. Oz show a pass though; he's bringing people solid advice and ways to better their lives in a format that's easily digestible (no pun intended). But I digress.



    Point is, there is so much emphasis on things or celebrity worship; all of the things we grasp onto to try to find some kind of meaning.



    Ted with his apparent "disability, " truly lived the meaning of life: love and be loved. Be kind. Be of service. Protect those who can't protect themselves. Do something that has meaning to your life and do it well.



    I bet Ted is still out there, happy as can be."
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  • Min kropstype er Gennemsnitlig
  • Min højde er 185 cm
  • Mine øjne er Brun
  • Min etnicitet er Kaukasisk
  • Min civilstand er Skilt
  • Jeg har børn Nej
  • Jeg vil have børn Nej
  • Mit bedste karaktertræk er Øjne
  • Kropsudsmykning Ville ikke engang overveje det
  • Mit hår er Salt og peber
  • Jeg har en eller flere af disse Hund
  • Villig til at flytte Ja
Status Hvad laver du?
  • Mit uddannelsesniveau er Universitetsgrad
  • Min nuværende ansættelsesstatus er Selvstændig
  • Mit speciale er Administration / ledelse
  • Min jobtitel er President
  • Jeg tjener så meget på et år Fra $1.000.000USD til $2.500.000USD om året
  • Jeg bor Alene, Med kæledyr
  • Hjemme Venner kommer forbi en gang i mellem
  • Jeg er ryger Nej
  • Jeg drikker Ja - til fester
Personlighed Hvordan handler du? Hvilken smag har du?
  • I gymnasiet var jeg Klassens klovn
  • Min sociale opførsel er Komisk, Venlig, Observerende, Uadvendt, Reserveret, Genert
  • Mine interesser og hobbier er Camping, Computer, Madlavning, Dans, Spise til middag, Motion, Familie, Internet, Læring, Film, Musik, Læsning, Religion / Spiritualitet, Sport, Teater, Tv, Frivilligt
  • Min idé om at have det sjovt er Være sammen med venner, Shoppe, Gå på casino, Tage til koncert, Gå på museum, Feste, Klæde sig ud, Afslappende, Være hjemme, I biografen, Prøve noget nyt, Tv
  • En ideel første date ville være Anything that allows us to comfortably be ourselves and form a sound foundation for a second date that we both can't wait for.
  • Jeg har altid villet prøve I've tried pretty much all I've wanted to but I am very open minded!
  • Mine venner beskriver mig som Venlig, Ballademager, Obskur, Fjollet
Synspunkter Syn på livet.
  • Min religion er Katolik
  • Jeg deltager i tjenester En gang om ugen
  • Mit mål i livet er Finding, and living out the remainder of life with, the woman of my dreams as an unbeatable couple. There are far more lofty issues like intervening in the ethnic cleansing in Darfur, stopping animal cruelty, personally squeezing the trigger with Osama Bin Laden in my sights but I have no realistic hope of achieving those.
  • Min form for humor er Banal, Snu, Venlig, Fjollet, Slapstick, Fræk
Smag Hvad kan du lide?
  • I tv ser jeg altid Nyheder, Tegnefilm, Dokumentarer, Dramaer, Gør-det-selv, Film, Sport
  • Når jeg går i biografen ser jeg altid en Handling, Comedy, Romantik, Drama, Dokumentar, Animation, Thriller
  • Når jeg hører musik, lytter jeg altid til Klassisk, Folk, Metal, Rock
  • Når jeg læser, læser jeg altid Gammelt, Selvbiografi, Biografi, Business, Klassisk, Komisk, Computer, Fiktion, Sundhed, Historie, Humor, Gør-det-selv, Matematik, Natur, Nyheder, Filosofi, Poesi, Politisk, Opslag, Religiøs, Videnskab, Science Fiction, Sport, Teknisk, Jeg er forfatter
  • Min forestilling om hvad der er sjovt er Sports (scuba diving, basketball, racquetball, biking, golf, weight training, snow skiing), Andrew Lloyd Webber and Jimmy Buffet concerts, Elgin Symphony, continuing to enhance my cultural side and hanging out with my Fuzzy White Dog (FWD) pals. I get a kick out of watching and learning more about people and flying to fun, interesting places with Benny Bellanca. I write database programs for worthwhile causes and participate in a Samoyed rescue organization. I'd rather be bored with myself and the dogs than another human...
Leder efter Hvad søger du?
  • Hvad finder du attraktivt? Skaldethed, Empati, Dygtighed, Humor, Intelligens, Særheder, Følsomhed, Spontanitet, Omtanke, Morsom
  • Hvilken type forhold leder du efter? Dato, Intim, Forpligtet

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